Rooted in the Unknown

Repeat after me: Paradigm shift. Say the words silently or say them aloud—but let them vibrate and resonate within your heart. Hear the meaning within them, feel the texture of them, the wisdom of them. Familiarize yourself with these words, friends, because these two little words capture the essence of what is currently shaking the foundation of our society and our planet. 

First, let’s get acquainted with the word paradigm. What is a paradigm? It is a blueprint or template, a way of looking at the world and understanding it. All of us, from the time we are very small, learn to operate in the world through our various “paradigms.” We may have a paradigm for understanding family, a paradigm for understanding religion, another for understanding money, and so on. Most of the paradigms we operate from were taught to us by our parents, our friends, and our society at large. 

For example, a paradigm that has held substantial weight within the collective consciousness is that of gender-stereotyped roles in the family: the woman as the care-taker of the children and the man as the financial provider. This has been a paradigm that has shaped our understanding of family and societal life—-what it is and what it means. 

Most of our paradigms are functioning at a level below conscious awareness, within the murky waters of our subconscious mind. Therefore, while we may not be completely cognizant of these paradigms, they nevertheless have a substantial impact on the way we function within the world. 

Next, let’s take a look at the word shift. 

What is a shift? 

Shifting is what happens when the Earth’s tectonic plates re-align themselves after an earthquake. Shifting is at play when you wake up one morning and realize you no longer want to go to the job you’ve been working at for the past two decades because it no longer fulfills your sense of purpose. Shifting is also at play when you have the dreaded and difficult conversation of telling your partner you can no longer be in a relationship with them but aren’t able to completely articulate why—-all you know is things are different and are no longer aligned. Shifting is at play as well when you re-kindle connection with an old flame whom you left years ago, certain you would never speak with them again and yet, here you are…because things have shifted between you. 

In essence, a shift is that indefinable, mysterious quality that we can’t quite put a finger on but we can feel within our bones. Shifting isn’t something the mind can understand but it is something the heart recognizes. Shifting is the quality of change that is constantly at play in our lives. It is the ineffable quality that beckons winter to unfold into spring and it is here now, beckoning us to follow it into the unknown. 

Repeat again: Paradigm shift. Can you feel it? 

We are in the midst of the greatest global transformation the world has ever seen. It is affecting us on all levels, known and unknown. No stone will go unturned and no person will be left behind in the cataclysm of change that is sweeping across our worlds, both inner and outer. 

Consider this an invitation from the Universe to step into unknown territory. Dock your boat to sail into uncharted waters. Try that new hobby you’ve been putting off for years. Sing that song, write that book, take that trip. 

Give up willingly your old beliefs, your old paradigms, and your old lens with the understanding that something new and fresh waits for you on the other side. Climb aboard your ship and sail into the new possibilities and adventures that wait for you. There is nothing to hold onto and indeed there is no reason to hold on; the shift has arrived. How you greet it is entirely up to you. 

Why losing your mind isn't such a bad thing

Maybe losing your mind isn’t such a bad thing after all. 

In fact, maybe it’s the best thing that could happen to you. 

From the time we are small, we are taught to use our minds to operate within the world: to think our way through our schooling, our careers, our relationships. Because if we can think our way though it, if we can just analyze, rationalize, and organize our thoughts about a situation enough, then we can find the answer we’re looking for, gain control of the situation, and come out on top. Right?

Well, maybe. Maybe that was the approach that worked in a world pre Corona-virus, pre George Flyod and the Black Lives matter movement, and pre Trump-era. Maybe the paradigm of using our mind to “solve” our problems got us this far in our evolutionary journey. Maybe it offered us solutions and direction prior to this year, this month, this very minute. 

But, in case you haven’t noticed, the world is changing—minute by minute. What once applied as a given in any situation is no longer relevant. The status quo that was once taken for granted is no longer applicable. The software that we had been using for centuries just went through a major upgrade. 

In other words, we’re not in Kanas anymore, my dear. 

So where are we, then? Where does that leave us? If we are no longer in the territory of the mind—which we have become so attached to as our main compass to guide us in regards to orientation and direction—then where do we find ourselves?

Where we find ourselves now is directly and completely immersed in the territory of the heart. 

No longer can we use and rely on the compass of our minds to give us answers and tell us what to do. It is time to tune into the inner knowing of our hearts: the intuitive nudges, the quiet whisperings, the emotional terrain that pulls you out of your comfort zone and into the places and spaces in your life that are asking you to grow. It is time to surrender the mind’s projections, expectations, agendas, attachments, resistances, and protests against moving into a territory it doesn’t understand. 

The thing is, you don’t have to understand this foreign territory in order to be safe in it. That’s a story that your mind is telling you. 

True security doesn’t come from the mind. It doesn’t come from anywhere or anyone outside of yourself. True security arises from anchoring into a relationship with the inner knowing of your heart. 

But how to get there? What means of travel to take to a place that is so foreign to us, both individually and collectively? How do you get to a place you’ve never been, or have been very infrequently? 

Your one-way ticket to the terrain of your heart is simple and can be summarized in one word: surrender. 

Surrender your need to understand or control what is happening in the world. Surrender all your ideas about what you think should be unfolding. Surrender your need to perform. Surrender your need to be doing anything other than what you are doing right now. Surrender the illusion that you are not worthwhile unless you are doing something “productive.” Surrender all of your attachments to the past. Surrender all of your attachments to the world that was. Surrender to what the world is now becoming, to what you are now becoming. 

Surrender, surrender, surrender. When you think you’ve surrendered all you can, surrender more. 

It doesn’t have to be hard. Actually, it can be quite easy. As easy as we are willing to make it…or as easy as we are willing to let it be. 

While the outside world around us continues to break down, remember that you can unplug from the chaos by unplugging from the mind. The mind is not bad per se, but it is not the mechanism in which we are going to maneuver our way through these uncharted waters. The compass that is going to guide us back to the sanity, the serenity, and the sublime peace that is our true nature is—and always has been—our hearts.